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Overcoming Speech Inhibition - How Does That Work?

Speech Inhibition – What Is That Exactly?

Many people know this moment:

You know what you would like to say. But as soon as you’re supposed to speak your mind goes blank. Your heart starts to race, you’re desperately looking for words and you would prefer to just stay silent.

Perhaps you are familiar with thoughts like:

“What if I make a mistake”?
“The others speack much better than me.”
“I actually know the answer – why can’t I get a proper sentence out?”

This so-called speech inhibition has surprisingly little to do with your actual language level. And the good news is that it can be overcome in a targeted manner.

Speech inhibitions not only make it difficult for us to communicate, but can also have serious consequences for our health (e.g. due to constant stress levels). It is not uncommon for us to fear for our careers when we are accused of “ignorance” or even “refusal to work”, when we avoid meetings, telephone conferences or presentations in the foreign language. It doesn’t have to be that way! The good news is, you can overcome speech inhibition and you are not alone.

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The Most Common Causes for Speech Inhibition

Without delving into the scientific depths of psychology here, there are many reasons why we are afraid of speaking.

Blockages can be caused by, among other things:

Traumas from the past:

– Long-lasting events
such as the unfair/bad/unsympathetic teacher from your school days, or the “authority figure” who always said that you have no talent and will therefore never learn it

– Unique and drastic experiences
such as the botched presentation, a failed language test, a disgrace in front of colleagues or friends due to the wrong choice of words, etc.

It is important not to suppress these experiences, but to accept them, but at the same time not to give them too much space and, above all, not to allow these “slips” to be considered the norm.

lack of self-confidence
Seeing problems where objectively there are none
Fear of rejection, embarrassment and criticism
Fear of not living up to expectations
Fear of fear, which often manifests itself in anger at oneself and feelings of inferiority
Fear of losing authority

Most of these causes have nothing to do with a lack of talent — but with experience, expectation, and inner pressure.

The Crucial Step: From Theory into Action

Many people spend a long time analyzing their speech inhibition. They know where the fear comes from—but this understanding alone does not change anything.

Real progress only begins when we gain new speaking experience and get the brain used to positive communication step by step.

The good news: speech inhibition can be trained. Not through perfection, but through small, safe steps.

Many try for years to overcome speech inhibition on their own —often with the feeling that they are not really making any progress. Sometimes even small changes in the learning approach are enough to regain more confidence in speaking.

In this free guide, I’ll show you the most important first steps. (German only)

Free guide for fearless speaking

Why Speech Inhibition Is Not a Language Problem

Many learners believe that they simply lack vocabulary or grammar skills. In reality, something completely different is happening.

When we are nervous, our brain activates a stress response. The body switches into alarm mode — useful in dangerous situations, but a hindrance when speaking a foreign language.

As a result:

access to familiar words slows down,
thoughts appear blocked,
and self-doubt becomes stronger.

This means:

You can know a structure perfectly — and still not recall it in a crucial moment.

Speech inhibition is therefore less a language problem than an interplay of emotion, habit and self-confidence.

And that’s exactly why you can learn to overcome it.

Overcoming Speech Inhibition

5 simple tricks with immediate effect

1. You are the boss!

If you are asked something or need to speak in English, then it is also you who determines what you’ll say and how you say it. That is, you can be brief, speak in simple sentences and, most importantly, you can speak slowly.

2. Lowering your expectations of yourself

Just lower the bar! No one expects you to express yourself as confidently and eloquently in the foreign language as you do in your native language. So if others don’t have this expectation of you, then you shouldn’t have it of yourself either. A big hurdle comes to mind: you don’t have to be a perfectionist. Give yourself permission to make mistakes.

Feel free to download my free Guide “Fehler machen erlaubt! – Dein Guide für angstfreies Englisch” (German only) .

3. Be honest about your fears

Accept the fear, but talk to yourself in a positive way that you can overcome it. Realize that most people feel the same way you do, and that you are not alone in your anxiety. So you can stop the stressful game of hide-and-seek because you don’t have to be ashamed. An open approach to fear makes the fear much smaller. You can only overcome your fear if you face it.

4. Set realistic goals

and never lose sight of your goal

Do you remember how long your training lasted, how much time and dedication you put into various training courses, etc.? Even if your company changes the company language to English from “one day to the next”, things are never as bad as they seem. Don’t think you need to immediately communicate flawlessly in every conceivable situation. It’s better to set realistic goals (as a “listener” in meetings or conference calls, make a “prepared contribution”, say something spontaneously, speak English outside the company, …). Slowly feel your way forward and ask your company for specific help, e.g. private lessons, etc.

5. Build confidence

Stop comparing yourself to others! You are you and just as you are, you are worth a lot. “The young colleague”, who perhaps really speaks better than you, certainly has other “deficits”: less experience, less charisma, less prestige, etc. and certainly relies on your advice and support in many ways. Don’t see others as competitors. Trust yourself and your abilities. Reduce fear of criticism and embarrassment by imagining what can go well and how good it will feel.

Language is communication

Imagine if all participants in an international (telephone) conference now had to communicate with you in German. How far would you all get? Therefore, always remember, you will not be subjected to any test during a conversation, but your counterpart is most likely happy that they can communicate with you and will not count the mistakes. Your communication partner(s) are on your side!

empty toilet paper roll with "Don't Panic" written on it

Do You Recognise Yourself?

Many people with speech inhibition have long believed that they are the only ones with this problem. To the outside world, it often seems as if everyone else speaks effortlessly, reacts spontaneously and is not afraid of making mistakes.

But in my trainings I hear similar sentences again and again:

“Actually, I can speak English — but as soon as I’m supposed to say something, I block.”
“I formulate sentences in my head, but then I don’t say them.”
“After conversations, I’m annoyed because I know what I could have said.”
“I’m afraid of appearing less competent.”

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and most importantly, it doesn’t mean you lack linguistic talent.

Practical Tips

that can be immediately integrated into your everyday life

The good news is that speech inhibition is not a personality trait – but a habit that can be changed.

Take private lessons: here you can be supported in a very targeted way and do not need to be afraid of embarrassing yourself in front of colleagues or other participants.
Don’t see English as a reason to run away but instead as an opportunity to make yourself heard in more than just one language.
Speak slowly: Even if you are nervous, your conversation partner will adapt to your pace, which in turn will help you understand them better.
Many conversations follow the same pattern : familiarize yourself with them and acquire a few phrases that you can use over and over again without having to think a long time about the right choice of words.
Play through an important conversation mentally and think about appropriate reactions in advance. This will help you avoid being unnecessarily offended during a conversation.
Speak, speak, speak: the more you practice, the more confident you become, this applies to everything we learn. Look for situations in which you feel comfortable and do not have to be afraid of embarrassing yourself. For example, find a tandem partner who speaks German with you and you speak English with them.
Go to English-speaking get togethers or bookclubs. Join the international expat network “Internations” and choose from numerous events and groups where English is often the only language spoken. The main thing is that it’s fun and you get to speak without any stress or pressure.
Motivate and encourage yourself again and again.
Learn a breathing technique and relaxation technique.
Think objectively about where your fears come from and perform a reality check to see if they are justified.
Think carefully about which skills would help you to cope better in certain “foreign language situations”. Do you “only” lack the necessary vocabulary, or is it uncertainty about grammar rules, or more the lack of language practice? After this analysis, set concrete and realistic goals to develop your skills.

The Most Important Facts in Brief

Speech inhibition is normal.
It has more to do with stress than with language knowledge.
Feeling confident in the language comes from regular, assisted speech.

The next step towards more confidence in speaking

Speech inhibition rarely goes away on its own — but it can be reduced step by step if you speak regularly in a supportive environment.

In my 1:1 sessions, we work specifically on

reducing inhibitions,
developing confidence in speaking freely
and regaining confidence in your own language skills.

If you wish, I’ll be at your side on this journey.

Book a trial lesson

How Do I Help You?

I create an atmosphere where you can feel comfortable and relax
I take your fears seriously and we pick up exactly where you’re currently at
You are not evaluated by me and do not have to deliver any performance
We move forward at the pace that’s right for you and you don’t have to compete or compare yourself to anyone
Every small step is a success that will make you grow
You can get rid of your fears and gain quality of life and enjoyment at work

I have dedicated a separate website to this topic, take a look at Die Sprachpraxis (German only)